Thursday, September 07, 2006
some points to ponder..
MOOD: eto, still thinking..
MUSIC: Til the End of Time - Westlife
Lately, i'm really loving my intellectual conversations with Irish *at talagang mukhang sikat ang jANAKis ko lately sa mga blog entries ko ah, hahaha!*. Be it over the telephone, or text messaging, or YM-ing, we analyze, as we put it, our situations. Andami pwedeng pag-usapan, pero ang madalas naming i-dissect, ang lovelife namin. Yup, meron kami nun. Magulo man, makulay naman. And after a series of seemingly endless kuwentuhans, often i'm left with a lots of things to ponder.
Being somebody who’s different from what the society’s used to, doesn’t make you less of a person. Bakit? E sa ganyan ka eh. Wala na silang magagawa dun. People say be true to yourself, pero pag nagpakatotoo ka naman, andami pa rin nilang questions. So san ka pa di ba? Di mo na tuloy alam kung san ka nga lulugar. So what i say is, be true. Others may not understand it. Others may question you. But still, you’re right, simply by choosing to be the real you.
We don’t love a wrong person. We just love, at a wrong time. Hindi naman kasi ata magandang isiping laging maling tao na lang ang minamahal natin. It reflects very badly of us. I guess it’s better to say it was just the wrong time. Or the wrong reason. Or the wrong place. We can blame everything else, but never the person. Wala naman siyang ginawa eh. Minahal lang natin sila.
Just because the one we chose to love doesn’t love us back, we can’t go on loving that person. Love is given freely by that one person that loves, and if that someone chose to give love, but for some reason, not to you, it doesn’t mean we can’t give the same amount of love that we’re capable of giving. If we expect our love to be always reciprocated, it’s like saying i love you, love me too. Love shouldn’t be demanded.
Tears shouldn’t always be an indication that you’re hurt. Not crying doesn’t have to mean i’m not hurting. Tears nowadays can be so deceiving, cried out just to have sympathetic people turn their attention to you, used as a means of getting what you want. So what i’m trying to say is that, not because i don’t cry anymore, I’m not harboring any pain inside. I am.
You don’t get over pain. You just learn to deal and live with it through time. So goes a text message i’ve received, not once or twice, but many times already. But only lately did i realize how true it was. Para bang, the pain grows on you, more often, making you numb already. Yung tipong, mas manibago ka kung hindi ka na nasaktan. Hindi naman sa hinahanap-hanap mo na yung sakit. More of like, you are used to it na, and that you’ve somehow accepted that love and pain are a package deal.
Ewan ko. Sa dami ng na-tackle naming topics, parang hindi enough ang isang blog entry para sa lahat ng yun. To follow na lang yung iba. Kai, kelan naman kaya ikaw ang makakadiskusyon ko neto? Haaay. Miss you all.
i've been Tin Nolasco at 23:18
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at Fri Sep 08, 08:31:00 AM 2006,
Anonymous had this to say
oo nga, pinapasikat mo pa ako lalo eh.. hahaha.. sobrang tama lahat ng sinabi mo, as in.. at least may napapala naman tayo sa pag-aanalayze natin di ba..
We don’t love a wrong person. We just love, at a wrong time. (yeah, correct.. minsan kasi kaya natin sinasabi na we a love a wrong person kasi hindi nila maibalik sa atin yung love natin for them.. pero kelangan ba tlaga reciprocated yung love, di naman di ba.. hindi na love yon..)
Just because the one we chose to love doesn’t love us back, we can’t go on loving that person. (oo, pwede naman ang maging drama natin in loving in silence di ba.. kapag kasi nagmahal hindi naman talaga dapat nag-eexpect something in return.. pero hindi kasi nature ka din kasi ng tao yung mag-expect..)
Tears shouldn’t always be an indication that you’re hurt. Not crying doesn’t have to mean I’m not hurting. (sabi nga ng isang quote, just because my eyes dont tear doesnt mean my heart doesnt cry.. and just because i come out strong doesnt mean there's nothing wrong.. often i choose to pretend im happy so i dont have to explain myself to people who would never even understand.. smiling has always been easier that explaining why im sad.. sapul di ba..)
You don’t get over pain. You just learn to deal and live with it through time. (through time, mababawasan na yung sakit or dahil siguro nga naging "manhid" ka na.. hehehe.. ang importante hindi ka maging bitter.. ayan sikat na naman si bitter..)
haba na ng comment ko na to.. hehehe.. =)
at Fri Sep 08, 09:00:00 AM 2006,
Anonymous had this to say
pam-blog entry na sa haba ang comment ah..
at Fri Sep 08, 10:27:00 AM 2006,
Anonymous had this to say
pinapaisip mo na naman ako eh...
sasagot na lang ako sa aking susunod na blog entry~ wooh...sa blog entry na lang tayo mag-usap!
o kaya itext mo naman ako minsan di ba? XD
at Fri Sep 08, 04:08:00 PM 2006,
Anonymous had this to say
First comment - "being somebody who's different from what the society's used to, doesnt make you less of a person" > you are not different marami ring taong ganyan try to look around baka you are just missing something.
Second comment - "We don't love a wrong person. we just love, at a wrong time" > We don't need to blame anything and anyone let's try to reflect baka kasi sa atin din mismo yung problema, chances are putting something or someone to blame is just making our own defense mechanism or just getting out of the situation.
3rd comment - "Just because the one who chose to love doesn't love us back, we can't go on loving that person" > I agree pero sometimes we deal with people na mahilig magpa-asa so we can't help but to expect.
4th comment - "Tears shouldn't always be an indication that you're hurt" > We just can't help it sometimes we get hurt and cry pero I agree dito kasi minsan may tears of joy and tears of laughter at marami pang klaseng tears nasa tao yan eh minsan kasi pag may tears associated na sya sa lungkot.
5th comment - "You don't get over pain. You just learn to deal and live with it trhough time." > Some people know how to get over pain. It depends how you control yourself. If you live with pain masama yan nagtatanim ka ng sama ng loob, magkakawrinkles ka lang and pimples nyan.
6th comment - "Wala lang" > sama rin ako sa mga intellectual conversations nyo para naman I will learn something from you and maybe you will learn somethng from me din.
Over all comment - "I learn a lot from this entry" > Pinag-isip mo ko nanay and infairness ang ganda ng entry na to ahehehehe. Promise dami ko natutunan.
at Mon Sep 11, 04:59:00 PM 2006,
Anonymous had this to say
well, tama naman ang lahat ng mga sinabi mo dito nitz... siguro nga na-experience ko na ang lahat ng mga sinabi mo.... naiyak, nagmahal at nasaktan... di naman kasi naiiwasan un di ba? ang mahalaga ay natuto ka...
at Wed Sep 13, 01:48:00 PM 2006,
Anonymous had this to say
yeah everybody is correct.. wala atang taong hindi nakaramdam ng ganitong feeling kahit yung taong manhid "nobody can tell hhehehe".. but ang lesson lang dito sana "nalaman natin na TAO tayo dahil natutu tayong masaktan at MANAKIT hehehe" and nobody is perfect.. sana lang tagalog siya joke.. for me?? eh ganun talga tayo eh.. wala na akong ibang ma say dahil inagaw na nilang lahat SAKIM kayong lahat nagcomment bwahahah.. all I can say just go with the flow and everything happen for a reason..
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